Psalms of Lament – Psalm 42

Sometimes as Christians we shy away from lament and other strong emotions, especially more negative ones. But opening ourselves up to lament is a way to open ourselves up to the pain and tragedy around us, even when things are fine on our end. It’s a way to empathize with those around us who are suffering.

As we look at the Psalms, we can break them into five categories generally – Lament, Praise & Thanksgiving, Wisdom, Royal/Messianic and the Psalms of Ascent.

Psalm 42 is the first psalm of book two of the Psalms, out of five – correlated with Exodus from the Pentateuch. It is one of the first psalms of lament, as well.

It’s a psalm we can relate to, as the psalmist wrestles with the fact that he sees evil winning and his enemies triumphing – “where is your god?” It’s a question we have all wrestled with as we see horrible things happen. But we tend to wrestle with it individually, rather than corporately. In public we often paper over our challenges with an outward face of joy that does not match our heart. We take the calls to rejoice from scripture and turn them into a mask, rather than honestly responding to the calls elsewhere to lament.

Theologian Walter Bruggeman, in his writings on the Psalms, describes our lives as moving in one of two directions – into the pit or out of the pit. This means we are in one of three places – either Orientation, when we feel like things make sense and we understand the world and our place in our; Disorientation, the crisis point when everything that made sense previously no longer does; or Reorientation, where we are given a new way of understanding the world and our place within it.

Within that paradigm, Psalms of lament are there to serve as reflections of those times of Disorientation, to point us back to times of Orientation, and forward to times of Reorientation. In Psalm 42, the speaker is so downcast that his tears are his only food – but calls on himself to remember the better times when he did feel connection with God, but also allows himself to cry out in desperation, itself an act of worship. But ends with a call forward to what he knows of God and how he will respond – “yet I will praise him, my savior and my God.”

So when we look at the world and see pain and chaos and hypocrisy, we can, with the psalmist, “yet praise him.”

We are people of rhythms – day and night, the turning of the seasons, reminding us of times of death and sadness, of times of joy and rebirth. We can use the Psalms as we go through these seasons ourselves – we can pray the Psalms of lament both as we ourselves find ourselves lamenting, but also as a spiritual exercise to open ourselves up to the sorrow of others.

What are you lamenting in your personal life. What do you lament for your family? What about your workplace, school or neighborhood? In our nation? In our world?

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, November 16, 2025

Hostility to Hospitality to Family – Hebrews 13:2

This exhortation comes at the end of the book of Hebrews, a part of a list of closing instructions – love each other, minister to those in prison, be sexually moral, and this one. “Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”

The term is philoxenia, a combination of the terms philos or affection, and xenos or stranger. We see this same instruction in Romans 12:13 – “Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” Both the people of God and the stranger, the xenos, are covered here.

The concept of welcoming the stranger is a continuance of the same instructions in the Old Testament where it is often connected to the people of Israel living as strangers, whether in Egypt or in Babylon.

But there is an additional angle here, this idea that there is more to these encounters than just the practical. At one level, it’s a reference to the story in Genesis where Abram and Sarai welcome and show hospitality to angels and are blessed in turn – or the reverse of that story that results in the destruction of Sodom. This negative example gives us a strong sense of how important hospitality is to God.

Beyond that is the promise that when we serve others in this way, we are touching something more than human, beyond the material world. It’s echo of the promise that when we serve others we are really serving Jesus in a very personal way. There is a magic to hospitality that transcends the practical effects, as valuable as those are.

And if we look at the “sin of Sodom” we also see that there is a negative magic as well, associated with hostility towards the stranger. This should give us pause, and give pause to the portions of the American church in particular that have set themselves up in opposition to the strangers and immigrants in our midst, painting them as criminals and as taking resources from deserving Americans.

In reality, immigrant churches are driving forward the kingdom of God across the country, especially in urban areas where white churches have declined or closed. A majority of the baptisms performed by the Evangelical church today are by immigrant churches. Immigration of non-Christians is bringing the mission field to the USA, while the work of immigrant pastors and churches are evangelizing Americans, reversing the typical ministry flow.

We must seek to go from hostility to hospitality to family as we engage with the strangers and immigrants around us. We should seek to learn from the ways of worship and teaching that seem foreign to us instead of putting up walls. We know that the ultimate destiny of the church is exactly this congregation from all peoples and all tribes.

But this unification of all voices can look a lot like a loss of control if we are used to being the only voice being heard. We must put that fear aside and instead step into the supernatural opportunity we are given to show hospitality to strangers–and possibly even to angels.

–Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, November 2, 2025

Save a Seat for Others – 1 Corinthians 11:17-26

A core practice of the Early Church was the Love Feast, a gathering for prayer, teaching, singing of hymns, eating together and the collection of offerings, much like we do today.

We get a good picture of this in Acts 2: “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles.” Again, it sounds very familiar.

But Acts 2 goes beyond that: “All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.”

This bridging of economic disparity was a key difference between the church and the people around them – along with breaking the barriers and expectations around ethnicity and gender. The community was intended to demonstrate the unity and reconciliation brought by Jesus in a way that set it apart from the surrounding culture. The way the church brought together rich and poor to eat together showed the love of God in a way that was impossible to mistake.

Tertullian (160-225 AD) wrote in his Apology, “Our feast explains itself by its name. The Greeks call it agape, l.e., affection. Whatever it costs, our outlay in the name of piety is gain, since with the good things of the feast we benefit the needy.”

But in Corinth, things were not going smoothly. Corinth was a wealthy city, and there were many wealthy believers – but also many poor ones. The poor ones had to work more than the wealthy, which meant they arrived late. The wealthy among them were beginning their meals early, finishing the food and drink before the poorer even arrived.

Imagine a preschool classroom where there’s one single toy that everyone wants – we fight and we squabble over the Big Wheel. When we have a scarcity mentality rather than an abundance mentality, we create barriers – in families, in churches, in nations.

Over time, the Love Feast and the Lord’s Supper, which had been essentially the same thing, became divided, especially as the church became more institutional and theological, and concept of the Sacrament, the Eucharist, took center stage over the communal & social aspects of the church.

But today there are ways to recapture the spirit of the Agape Feast – James Menendez on Substack makes a few recommendations:

1. Encouraging Fellowship Over Meals.

Hosting meals that go beyond potlucks to intentionally foster spiritual conversations, testimonies, and prayer.

2. Promoting Testimonies as a Key Part of Worship.

Giving voice to those across the spectrum of age, gender, class, social status and more.

3. Practicing Generosity and Shared Resources.

Being intentional about giving to those in need, both inside and outside the church.

4. Building Smaller, Intimate Groups.

This has been a challenge for Renew but we are at work on it

5. Practicing Communal Meal and Prayer to Sunday Worship.

We work to accomplish this by combining our celebration of the Lord’s Supper with our Third Sunday potluck every Sunday.

Overall, the message is to save a seat at the table. Jean Vanier, writes in Becoming Human, “A society that honors only the powerful, the clever, and the winners necessarily belittles the weak. It is as if to say to be human is to be powerful.”

John Swinton, similarly, writes in It was Good, Not Perfect, “If God’s creation is good, then every life within it, regardless of capacity, cognition, or conformity, is already gifted with divine affirmation.”

What does it mean to save a seat at the table for the disabled? For the elderly? Wait for those who are slower, who need more time for any number of reasons. We as a church need to see those the world ignores and lift up those knocked down by society, by biology, by even their own choices. We need to save a seat at the table.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, October 19, 2025

Widows, Orphans and Foreigners – Deuteronomy 10:18-19

We don’t ourselves have the same experience as Israel is pointed to here, but all of us have depended on others in the the past, even if just when we were infants. We have all been vulnerable in the past, like Israel, and like Israel as a faith communitand we are all called to demonstrate empathy for and actively advocate for the most vulnerable around us.

This passage comes just after the golden calf rebellion, when the people of Israel lost patience and created their own god target than waiting on the Lord. It comes as a piece of the covenant renewal, expanding the ritual purity into a broader doctrine of compassionate holiness, from ritual purity to justice and compassion. The response to divine mercy God asks for is ethical faithfulness.

This call to love the out group was radical in the ancient Near East, even more than in today’s society. The boundaries and borders of the world are real, but the first identity for them (and us) is as a child of God.

This message is a reminder that the ethnic identity – even for the chosen people of God – is a responsibility rather than a recognition of innate goodness. They literally just finished giving up their good jewelry to create a pagan idol. Likewise, if we today conflate our cultural, national or ethnic identity with our identity as children of God, we likewise make that mistake. When we see our political units and political players as anointed by God, we miss the point of what God truly cares about.

God shows us what He cares about when He orients Israel’s law to center on the dignity of marginalized.

Today, much of the church has lost this understanding. We have to make excuses to show compassion, we condemn empathy. We spend more time gatekeeping our communities and places of worship than welcoming in the stranger.

So as a community we are called to respond to God’s justice in the same way Israel was. We are called to welcome immigrants with radical, practical hospitality. We are called to support orphans, widows, and immigrants in their needs; to learn the stories of the marginalized; to use our places of privilege to advocate for justice in our communities; to build friendships across difference; to pray and worship with mercy in mind.

As a church we are a subversive community, living in the world, within particular political boundaries, but with a higher calling. Let us continually seek that calling and to live out the unconditional love God shows us.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, October 5, 2025

Giving and Receiving Hospitality – Sermon Notes, Acts 28:1-10

It can be difficult to accept help – it can be embarrassing, demoralizing and overly vulnerable. But we are also commanded to give help and assistance to those in need – this means that if we are not careful, we can fall into a pattern of paternalism, making a separation between those who Have and those who Need. But this dichotomy is not biblical – biblical hospitality is a two way street. You cannot truly give unless you can receive.

We see that in this story in the book of Acts. People serve each other throughout the story – even at the beginning, the people of Malta rescue Paul and his companions, while Paul works to build a fire.

When he is bit by a snake, Paul’s reputation swings wildly from being a murderer to being seen as a god. This miracle does not result in an immediate conversion of the people there – they do not turn to Jesus but interpret what happened within their own pagan framework.

But even so, Paul heals the father of Publius, the chief official, and then heals many others on the island – in turn, they are given hospitality by Publius for three months, and are greatly honored by the people there, “in many ways”, finally sent off with all the supplies they need

We don’t see Paul preaching the gospel here, but rather we see him “doing life together” with the pagans around him, accepting their help and providing his own.

We can learn a lot from this passage about receiving hospitality in God’s economy. First, God’s people aren’t immune from need. If we pretend we do not have any needs, we will miss opportunities to receive help. And we will be surprised by those who step in to help. Christians are not the only people who work the will of God, just like we see on Malta. As we also see on Malta, receiving hospitality creates community. Paul and his shipwrecked companions created a community for three months with the people of Malta, a combination of cosmopolitan Jews, superstitious islanders, maybe a few sailors in the mix. And in that community, like this motley crew in the Mediterranean, we can experience home and life.

As a people, our hospitality muscles have atrophied – between the pandemic and the general drift of culture, as Paul says later in Acts 28, our “heart has become calloused.” This is true on an individual level but also on a national level.

If we as individuals and as a nation could reflect more on how we have received help and wisdom and gifts of other people and peoples, perhaps there would be less calloused behavior, and more celebration.

We, as a church, are called to be openhearted, to both give and receive hospitality with joy and gratitude. We are to be expansive in both directions as we expand our family circle and God brings all of us to His banquet table.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, September 21, 2025

The Bread of Life – John 6:28-35

We eat for many reasons – sustenance, comfort, taste, specific health purposes, business meetings, social connection, family connection and much more. In scripture, food is extremely important because in life it is important. Food is discussed throughout the Bible, and food as a component hospitality in particular. There are also many food-based spiritual metaphors, because the nourishment – and more – that food provides is also needed spiritually. We come together for the Lord’s Supper today, and look forward to the Wedding Feast of the Lamb in the future, and in between coming together for meals and fellowship together.

What shape do you think the Table of the Kingdom of God is? Likely not a hierarchical rectangle, but a round table of equality – or perhaps even a shifting, amorphous shape that modifies itself based on the needs of those coming to eat.

The food metaphor here is one of the most important. It is the first of seven “I AM” statements in the Gospel of John, as Jesus connects himself to the YHWH of the Old Testament while also describing who He is in more detail. The Bread of Life, the Light of the World, the Door of the Sheep, the Good Shepherd, the Resurrection and the Life, the Way the Truth and the Life, the True Vine.

Jesus used these statements to point people to himself from the things they were familiar with. It does often confuse them, as it does here. In part this is because Jesus has just come from feeding the 5,000, with 12 baskets of food left over. That miracle of compassion and abundance is the backdrop of his discussion of Himself as the Bread of Life.

The crowd has followed him from one side of the lake to the other, asking what they should do, perhaps in order to keep the gravy train coming. They even reference the manna given by Moses in the wilderness, more physical sustenance provided miraculously.

But Jesus corrects them on multiple points. First, it wasn’t Moses who gave the manna, but God. And second, the physical sustenance, while important, is secondary to the Person of the God who gave that Manna – He Himself is the Bread of Life, who comes down and gives Himself for the world. The work of God, he explains, is simply to know and be in relationship with Him.

Jesus’ I Am statements are more than just theological statements of his identity, but they are invitations into relationship with Him as a natural and inescapable outgrowth of His divine identity.

Even so, we see the confusion of the crowds here, which may give us some comfort in our own confusion. Jesus, in the midst of our confusion, misunderstanding and tendency to go our own way, stands before us and says “I Am.” We can be still and know the He Is.

At the great feast of the Kingdom of God, it will be full of every kind of food, all the wide diversity of sustenance, connection and joy that food brings. We are called to serve and to invite others to this feast, tearing down every door and barrier that could keep people from this feast. The Great Feast of the King is abundant and generous – it is an open invitation to all – it is as diverse as humanity itself – and it is live giving in a supernatural way.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, September 9, 2025

Activated – Matthew 8:14-17

Many of us are impacted by emotional inertia – objects in motion tend to stay in motion, abs objects at rest tend to stay at rest. We have difficulty moving ourselves from one mode to another – getting ourselves going when we have been passive, or giving ourselves needed rest when we keeping ourselves busy.

But those moments of activation, when we step into those activities and work that energize us and bring us to where we were meant to be, are special times. We see that in Jesus’ ministry here, another part of the epilogue to the Sermon on the Mount.

The story takes place at Jesus’ home base – he spent significant time in Capernaum throughout his ministry, and Peter’s family home in particular. (This home eventually appears to have become one of the first ever church buildings, in fact). It was a place of rest and hospitality – and hospitality was taken very seriously in that time and place. Peter’s mother in law would likely have been the driving force for that, prevented from that duty by illness.

So when Jesus heals her, he returns her not just to health but to her role and contribution of hospitality. This is a reminder that Jesus’ healing is more than physical, but a holistic restoration of people and their identities.

We see that Jesus physically touches a woman to bring healing, stepping across taboo and custom to demonstrate love in both a practical and emotional way.

We see that he treats women with dignity in a society that often did not. We see that he heals with authority and power, both purely physical ailments and those with dark spiritual roots. We also see him intimately involved with those sick and outcast. Matthew cites the passage in Isaiah in which the Suffering Servant pays a price for the healing he provides. Salvation, then, goes beyond forgiveness and info healing. The atoning work of Jesus goes beyond justification into sanctification, rebuilding and remaking our very selves into the person we are meant to be.

Finally, Jesus not only heals but activates – we are “renewed by God for the renewal of our neighborhoods.” We are loved by God to let us love our neighbors. Peter’s mother-in-law was healed to enable her to serve, living into her vocation of hospitality.

So when we come to church and are healed even in small ways from our hurts, we should seek to do the same. When we are activated by Christ, how do we step into that and take it forward? Can we see service as an act of power imparted by the the Holy Spirit?

Where do we see people today lying in metaphorical “fever”- isolated, suffering unseen? How can we, like Jesus, extend healing through presence, touch, and word? What does it mean for the Church to fulfill Isaiah’s vision of bearing others’ burdens?

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, August 24, 2025

Epilogue to the Sermon on the Mount – Matthew 8:5-13

Am important question to ask in order to get deeper in your study of scripture is “Where is this text located?” What is the location on the page – what comes before, what comes after, and why did the author put it there? What’s the geographic location of the event and the writing? What’s the social location? What are the relationships involved? What are the power dynamics and social expectations or assumptions?

On the page, this particular story takes place immediately after the Sermon on the Mount, and serves as an epilogue that reinforces many of the themes from Jesus’ teaching, in the form of action.

Geographically, this takes place in Capernaum, a fishing town on the northern coast of Israel, a crossroads where many ethnicities mingled, including Jews, Roman soldiers, and migrants and merchants from surrounding regions.

Socially, the centurion represents the power of Rome and the oppression of the Jewish people. Beyond that, there was a strong bias against mixing between Jews and gentiles. Many aspects of this story cure against the social norms of the time. The centurion lowers himself to asking for help from an itinerant native teacher – and does it on behalf of his social inferior and servant. For his part, Jesus, a rabbi of growing reputation, ignores the social taboos and immediately offers to go to the house of this gentile, this oppressor. And then the centurion goes beyond, demonstrating an even deeper faith in Jesus’ power and authority than his own people.

This entire interaction is a demonstration of what Jesus taught in the Sermon on the Mount. He has come to fulfill the law in a way that will look like overturning it. Things are being turned upside down, and the insiders are becoming outsiders and the outsiders are being brought inside the kingdom of God.

This interaction is part of a slow roll-out of what Paul calls a great mystery – the expansion of the promise of the kingdom of God to the gentiles. We see this also in the conversation with the Syrian woman later in the book, and even at the beginning of Matthew, in the genealogy. Matthew explicitly calls out the gentiles in the lineage of Jesus (and, incidentally, King David as well).

We have access to the same authority and power of Jesus that we see the centurion seek. The way to the kingdom is narrow but the gate is wide open, regardless of social status, ethnicity nationality, family. This is not a side aspect of of the gospel that can be segregated into a 2-3 week Bible study. This is central point, because it is about human relationships, and Good stepping into heal them and being reconciliation.

This also isn’t just a thing for “Bible times.” This is live and ongoing, happening right now all around us. This is something we are called to participate in, to step out in faith like the Centurion did, being a part of the work Jesus is doing. Like the Centurion, we can “interrupt” Jesus on behalf of others. We can intercede for those near us and those at a distance. May we be a people of prayer.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, August 17

Wolves and Fruit – Matthew 7:15-23

Last week, we heard Jesus lay out the binary choice we have – the wide, easy, popular path or the narrow, challenging one that follows Him. This week, he warns against the voices and influencers that would draw us onto the wrong path – voices that may even look and sound like they have our best interests in mind.

Jesus uses two images here – first the pastoral image of sheep and wolves, then plants and their fruit. Jesus uses that sheep/wolf imagery multiple times in the gospels, warning in Matthew 10 that his followers will be sheep among wolves. This is a direct echo of Jesus’ warning about the narrow gate and the challenges that come with it, but also the reassurance earlier in the Sermon on the Mount, not to worry, and that those persecuted are in fact blessed. He promises that the Holy Spirit, the real time, relational Person of the Trinity, will be with us and give us the words and the way to navigate this narrow path crawling with wolves. There is pushback to love and justice and mercy in this world. There is pushback to the good news of the gospel.

We also get this sheep/wolf metaphor in John 10 – Jesus calls himself the gate for His sheep, as well as the Good Shepherd who lays down his life for the sheep when the wolf comes. The “hired hand” is scared off because he has no stake in or real love for the sheep, but Jesus knows and is known by His sheep.

We get two flavors of false prophets here – both those who are actively antagonistic to the truth of Christ, even if they disguise themselves as His followers, as well as the “hired hands,” the leaders and influencers who are only there for the material gains – even if they aren’t actively malicious, their lack of real love and foundation means they abandon the flock when needed most. They lack the courage to stand up for the truth of Christ and continue down the narrow path.

The next metaphor Jesus uses is that of plants and fruit, along with the clear warning that not everyone who claims to follow Him is really doing so. Not everyone who claims to know Jesus really does. Jesus warns about this in multiple parables in Matthew 25 – the Ten Virgins, the Talents and the Sheep and Goats. In each of these, we have people who actively say “Lord, Lord” but who find that they never truly knew the person of Christ. The measure we give is the measure we receive. When we truly engage in relationship with Christ, His love spills out into action, concrete compassionate behavior that loves the broken, the poor and the oppressed.

There is an unbreakable connection between knowing Jesus and doing His will. Jesus paints us a picture of sheep, constantly vulnerable and under threat, with threats on either side. There are temptations everywhere – temptations to abandon that vulnerability, to reject the promises of the beatitudes, to seek a world that is right side up rather than the upside down world Jesus promises, where poverty is blessing and powerlessness is power. Our good shepherd is calling us to “stay on target,” to keep following Him and ignore the wolves around us.

— Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, July 27, 2025

Narrow Gates – Matthew 7:13-14

We often allow ourselves to live in an illusion and thus make decisions based on avoiding pain and hardship rather than what is best. M. Scott Peck writes:

Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult-once we truly understand and accept it-then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.

That comes from Peck’s book The Road Less Traveled, named for Robert Frost’s poem that echoes Jesus’ words here about the paths that we choose, the ways that we can go.

Early Christians were often called People of the Way, a reminder that life with Christ is a journey, along a path. We choose the path, we choose the gate, but then we must continue along that path making choices all along the way.

But the gate and the path Jesus calls us to is narrow – constricting because of the persecution that path brings with it. And perhaps because of that, it is unpopular. Jesus is clear here about who his followers are – they are not the dominant culture, they are not the popular, not the trending.

Justice is difficult. Loving our enemy is difficult. Humans are built to love, but our fallen nature makes that hard. Compassion is looked down upon and hatred becomes easier than the love we are built for.

But walking the narrow path means turning our lives over to Jesus and the Holy Spirit, seeking God’s will for our life over our own. This, Jesus promises, will lead to problems. If everyone in your life is happy with you, are you really on the path Jesus wants for you?

As we look at the choices and paths we have ahead of us, may the words of Christ guide us to the narrow path and the narrow gate. May he give us the wisdom to discern the party courage to choose the more difficult road,