This is a continuation of the “Embody” series, examining how we as a church are to embody the love of God for those around us. As the pandemic deconstructed church, we are putting it back together around the essentials, and that embodiment is indeed the deepest essential.
This passage is one of two in the scripture that demonstrates (or embodies) the forgiveness of God. The other is the Prodigal Son, a direct parable of God’s forgiveness. In both stories, a reconciliation occurs, and the offended party runs out to meet the offender and embraces him, weeping. As Jacob says, this forgiveness is “like the face of God.” In reconciling face to face, he sees the face of God and experiences His forgiveness as well.
Likewise, when we extend forgiveness and grace to those around us, we show the face of God to others.
The context of this story is the turmoil, infighting, trickery and other dysfunction that surround the family of Abraham – like something out of a reality show. Though they were God’s chosen people, they were not chosen by merit, but grace. The patriarchs are not the heroes of the Bible – God is the hero of the Bible, and His grace shines through even in the Old Testament. We run into trouble as a church when we see the characters in the Old Testament as heroes in the earthly sense, and then place ourselves (whether as a church, a nation, an ethnicity) at the center of the story as the inheritors of this worldly power and wealth.
The seeds of this story were planted even before Jacob and Esau were born, as the twins wrestled with each other in the womb. Jacob’s very name comes from holding his brother’s heel as he was born, a term that also means “supplanter” or “usurper” – and he lived up to that name, conspiring with his mother to steal Esau’s very birthright as the (barely) firstborn. Esau swears to kill him.
This leads to Jacob fleeing to extended family to find a wife, and a bit of turnabout as his Uncle Laban tricks him into marrying both his daughters and working for him 14 years. Jacob turns that back on him, gaining wealth at Laban’s expense and eventually leaving in the night and taking all his flocks and family. Fleeing from Laban brings Jacob back to Esau in this story.
That’s when he gets the news that Esau is advancing with 400 men, and so Jacob’s reaction is yet another scheme, stacking children and flocks ahead of him in order of importance to him, in order to be able to flee if things go south.
This preparation to flee calls back to the time he wrestled with God (or the angel of God, or something), when his hip is struck, likely to prevent Jacob, whose nature (like many of us) is to respond to problems by running. Again, Jacob is in a place when he cannot run, but has to reconcile.
Reconciliation, to one another and between us and God, is the role of us as the church today. But the next step of this story – when Jacob bails on his brother entirely and goes in a different direction – reminds us that reconciliation is not easy, and is not a quick fix.
But it is still what we are called to, both individually and as a church. We are called to put aside our worldly reactions she striving, and live face to face in the grace and forgiveness of God.
– Sermon Notes, Dave Sim, Renew Church, Lynnwood WA, May 8, 2022